He's Married

Yi told me he got ROM with S.P, and it took place a few months back.

I then MSN Kian, and Jx & Sw got to knw abt it too. we speculated that he has chose to tell me coz i will not interrogate or jump on him like Kian or Jx might. But i was truly unhappy. we see no reason for a friend we've known so long and considered "close" to get off without sharing the news with us. he hid the yr-long relationship (maybe even longer), and now, this registery. i agree with Jx, he may have his own reasons, but wat cld it be? his army friends knew abt it. and i asked Yi if he has consider them 'closer' friends to us.

i'm quite upset. once again, it proves that there's a true difference between how even 2 person may take the same friendship differently. it's all abt expectations. to Yi, informing us may even be too much for him to do. seriously, we started to have flash backs if we even knw him at all. he's not wat we thot he was... is he?

true friends are supposed to standby for each other. true friends are forever. i'm not asking for any report on every little happenings, we need our little closet. but wld really be nice if we can celebrate happy moments together, and walk thru the downs in life together. coz when we grow old, memories are actually wht we'r hv left to hold us thru...