Monday, December 24, 2007
Friday, December 21, 2007
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Dr Phil's Test
Soo forwarded this email to me:
Below isDr Phil's test . (Dr. Phil scored 55; he did this test on Oprah - she got a 38.) Some folks pay a lot of money to find this stuff out!
Read on, this is very interesting!
Don't be overly sensitive! The following is pretty accurate and it only takes 2 minutes. Answers for who you are now, not who you were in the past. Have pen or pencil and paper ready.
This is a real test given by the Human Relations Dept at many of the major corporations today.It helps them get better insight concerning their employees and prospective employees. It's only 10 Simple questions, so grab a pencil and paper, keeping track of your letter answers to each question.
Ready??
Begin...
1.When do you feel your best?
a) in the morning
b) during the afternoon & and early evening
c) late at night
2.You usually walk. .
a) fairly fast, with long steps
b) fairly fast, with little steps
c) less fast head up, looking the world in the face
d) less fast, head down
e) very slowly
3.When talking to people you..
a) stand with your arms folded
b) have your hands clasped
c) have one or both your hands on your hips
d) touch or push the person to whom you are talking
e) play with your ear, ! touch your chin, or smooth your hair
4.When relaxing, you sit with...
a) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side
b) your legs crossed
c) your legs stretched out or straight
d) one leg curled under you
5.When something really amuses you, you react with...
a) big appreciated laugh
b) a laugh, but not a loud one
c) a quiet chuckle
d) a sheepish smile
6. When you go to a party or social gathering you..
a) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you
b) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know
c) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed
7.You're working very hard, concentrating hard, and you're interrupted.......
a) welcome the break
b) feel extremely irritated
c) vary between these two extremes
8.Which of the following colors do you like most?
a) Red or orange
b) black
c) yellow or light blue
d) green
e) dark blue or purple
f) white
g) brown or gray
9.When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going to sleep you are..
a) stretched out on your back
b) stretched out face down on your stomach
c) on your side, slightly curled
d) with your head on one arm
e) with your head under the covers
10.You often dream that you are...
a) falling
b) fighting or struggling
c) searching for something or somebody
d) flying or floating
e) you usually have dreamless sleep
f) your dreams are always pleasant
POINTS:
1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6
2. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 7 (d) 2 (e) 1
3. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 5 (d) 7 (e) 6
4. (a) 4 (b) 6 (c) 2 (d) 1
5. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 2
6. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 2
7. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 4
8. (a) 6 (b) 7 (c) 5 (d) 4 (e) 3 (f) 2 (g) 1
9. (a) 7 (b) 6 (c) 4 (d) 2 (e) 1
10. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 6 (f) 1
Now add up the total number of points.
OVER 60 POINTS : Others see you as someone they should 'handle with care.' You're seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant.. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like
you, but don't always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you.
51 TO 60 POINTS : Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality; a natural leader, who's quick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and
adventuresome, someone who will try anything once; someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company
because of the excitement! you radiate.
41 TO 50 POINTS: Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting; someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out.
31 TO 40 POINTS: Others see you as sensible, cautious, careful & practical. They see you as clever, gifted, or talented, but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone
who's extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expect the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you realize it takes a lot to shake your trust In your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over if that trust is ever broken.
21 TO 30 POINTS: Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would! really surprise them if you ever did something
impulsively or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature.
UNDER 21 POINTS: People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions & who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything! They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist. So me people think you're boring. Only those who know you well know that you aren't.
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SaL's a 42
Below isDr Phil's test . (Dr. Phil scored 55; he did this test on Oprah - she got a 38.) Some folks pay a lot of money to find this stuff out!
Read on, this is very interesting!
Don't be overly sensitive! The following is pretty accurate and it only takes 2 minutes. Answers for who you are now, not who you were in the past. Have pen or pencil and paper ready.
This is a real test given by the Human Relations Dept at many of the major corporations today.It helps them get better insight concerning their employees and prospective employees. It's only 10 Simple questions, so grab a pencil and paper, keeping track of your letter answers to each question.
Ready??
Begin...
1.When do you feel your best?
a) in the morning
b) during the afternoon & and early evening
c) late at night
2.You usually walk. .
a) fairly fast, with long steps
b) fairly fast, with little steps
c) less fast head up, looking the world in the face
d) less fast, head down
e) very slowly
3.When talking to people you..
a) stand with your arms folded
b) have your hands clasped
c) have one or both your hands on your hips
d) touch or push the person to whom you are talking
e) play with your ear, ! touch your chin, or smooth your hair
4.When relaxing, you sit with...
a) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side
b) your legs crossed
c) your legs stretched out or straight
d) one leg curled under you
5.When something really amuses you, you react with...
a) big appreciated laugh
b) a laugh, but not a loud one
c) a quiet chuckle
d) a sheepish smile
6. When you go to a party or social gathering you..
a) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you
b) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know
c) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed
7.You're working very hard, concentrating hard, and you're interrupted.......
a) welcome the break
b) feel extremely irritated
c) vary between these two extremes
8.Which of the following colors do you like most?
a) Red or orange
b) black
c) yellow or light blue
d) green
e) dark blue or purple
f) white
g) brown or gray
9.When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going to sleep you are..
a) stretched out on your back
b) stretched out face down on your stomach
c) on your side, slightly curled
d) with your head on one arm
e) with your head under the covers
10.You often dream that you are...
a) falling
b) fighting or struggling
c) searching for something or somebody
d) flying or floating
e) you usually have dreamless sleep
f) your dreams are always pleasant
POINTS:
1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6
2. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 7 (d) 2 (e) 1
3. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 5 (d) 7 (e) 6
4. (a) 4 (b) 6 (c) 2 (d) 1
5. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 2
6. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 2
7. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 4
8. (a) 6 (b) 7 (c) 5 (d) 4 (e) 3 (f) 2 (g) 1
9. (a) 7 (b) 6 (c) 4 (d) 2 (e) 1
10. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 6 (f) 1
Now add up the total number of points.
OVER 60 POINTS : Others see you as someone they should 'handle with care.' You're seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant.. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like
you, but don't always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you.
51 TO 60 POINTS : Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality; a natural leader, who's quick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and
adventuresome, someone who will try anything once; someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company
because of the excitement! you radiate.
41 TO 50 POINTS: Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting; someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out.
31 TO 40 POINTS: Others see you as sensible, cautious, careful & practical. They see you as clever, gifted, or talented, but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone
who's extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expect the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you realize it takes a lot to shake your trust In your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over if that trust is ever broken.
21 TO 30 POINTS: Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would! really surprise them if you ever did something
impulsively or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature.
UNDER 21 POINTS: People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions & who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything! They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist. So me people think you're boring. Only those who know you well know that you aren't.
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SaL's a 42
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Zen Wisdom
Something to Share ;)
1. Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me, for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me either. Just pretty much leave me the hell alone.
2. The journey of a thousand miles begins with a broken fan belt and leaky tire.
3. It's always darkest before dawn. So if you're going to steal your neighbor's newspaper, that's the time to do it.
4. Don't be irreplaceable. If you can't be replaced, you can't be promoted.
5. Always remember that you're unique. Just like everyone else.
6. Never test the depth of the water with both feet.
7. If you think nobody cares if you're alive, try missing a couple of car payments.
8. Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes.
9. If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.
10. Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach him how to fish, and he will sit in a boat and drink beer all day.
11. If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.
12. If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.
13. Some days you're the bug; some days you're the windshield.
14. Everyone seems normal until you get to know them.
15. The quickest way to double your money is to fold it in half and put it back in your pocket.
16. A closed mouth gathers no foot.
17. Duct tape is like 'The Force'. It has a light side and dark side, and it holds the universe together.
18. There are two theories to arguing with women. Neither one works.
19. Generally speaking, you aren't learning much when your lips are moving.
20. Experience is something you don't get until just after you need it.
21. Never miss a good chance to shut up.
22. Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night.
1. Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me, for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me either. Just pretty much leave me the hell alone.
2. The journey of a thousand miles begins with a broken fan belt and leaky tire.
3. It's always darkest before dawn. So if you're going to steal your neighbor's newspaper, that's the time to do it.
4. Don't be irreplaceable. If you can't be replaced, you can't be promoted.
5. Always remember that you're unique. Just like everyone else.
6. Never test the depth of the water with both feet.
7. If you think nobody cares if you're alive, try missing a couple of car payments.
8. Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes.
9. If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.
10. Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach him how to fish, and he will sit in a boat and drink beer all day.
11. If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.
12. If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.
13. Some days you're the bug; some days you're the windshield.
14. Everyone seems normal until you get to know them.
15. The quickest way to double your money is to fold it in half and put it back in your pocket.
16. A closed mouth gathers no foot.
17. Duct tape is like 'The Force'. It has a light side and dark side, and it holds the universe together.
18. There are two theories to arguing with women. Neither one works.
19. Generally speaking, you aren't learning much when your lips are moving.
20. Experience is something you don't get until just after you need it.
21. Never miss a good chance to shut up.
22. Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night.
Monday, December 03, 2007
love thy own life
was clearing out my cupboard and found a piece of paper with my hand writing:
love & accept yourself, no matter what happens in your life. watever you encounter is just what you need at this time to maximise your inner learning and healing process. so, all experiences, no matter how difficlut, will ultimately bring you greater self-understanding and fulfillment.
this was from my nxf days. probably from some emails that I received. gosh. jus wat did i go thru to appreciate tt??
love & accept yourself, no matter what happens in your life. watever you encounter is just what you need at this time to maximise your inner learning and healing process. so, all experiences, no matter how difficlut, will ultimately bring you greater self-understanding and fulfillment.
this was from my nxf days. probably from some emails that I received. gosh. jus wat did i go thru to appreciate tt??
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Believe.Belief
Got this from one Self Leadership Int newsletter:
"Just do it" is the Nike creed; "build it and they will come" says the Kevin Costner character in Field of Dreams. Whilst these maxims may seem selfish or gung ho, they do reveal the power of self-belief and intentionality. When we believe in ourselves and set an intention to do something, we become an 'attractor' and draw to ourselves the people and resources we need to complete the project. Will it be easy? Unlikely, nothing worthwhile is usually easy. Will it be rewarding and satisfying? Absolutely!
some encourage for self. Just Do It!!
"Just do it" is the Nike creed; "build it and they will come" says the Kevin Costner character in Field of Dreams. Whilst these maxims may seem selfish or gung ho, they do reveal the power of self-belief and intentionality. When we believe in ourselves and set an intention to do something, we become an 'attractor' and draw to ourselves the people and resources we need to complete the project. Will it be easy? Unlikely, nothing worthwhile is usually easy. Will it be rewarding and satisfying? Absolutely!
some encourage for self. Just Do It!!
Tuesday, November 06, 2007
n it lingers on...
we had a membership event today. i've heard of Ms Shirley Quek, Director of HR for STB, a thousand times, but only got to meet her today. Her seemingly quiet voice spoke the loudest words i've heard for the past few mths.
"..if you define yourself by your job, then u shd reali be thinking again. of coz u r not! u r more than ur job! dun let everything pass by like sitting in a bullet train. Learn to be curious and ask qn again. do something u'll stay inquisitive. whr does your train of life leads u to?"
".. we will not be wat we want to be if we remain whr we are today."
"... learn to let go."
it was a whole hr of sharing of her own pursuing of knowledge as a HRD person, and how as she got more curious abt Change and shifting mindset, she learnt further. She also shared with us her personal experience when facing with choices. one of the participants, an mature Indian HR professional, was moved to tears. i chocked slightly. be it the difficulties of doing work in making changes in orgnaisation or balancing work & life or pursuing what she wanted, her words has touched many of us in different ways. though her session started 4.45pm, but everyone in the room stayed attentive & engaged.
I dun usually seat in for such sessions, but i was there coz i need to open the presentation file for her, so i sat thru. I'm glad i there...maybe it's meant to be.
"..if you define yourself by your job, then u shd reali be thinking again. of coz u r not! u r more than ur job! dun let everything pass by like sitting in a bullet train. Learn to be curious and ask qn again. do something u'll stay inquisitive. whr does your train of life leads u to?"
".. we will not be wat we want to be if we remain whr we are today."
"... learn to let go."
it was a whole hr of sharing of her own pursuing of knowledge as a HRD person, and how as she got more curious abt Change and shifting mindset, she learnt further. She also shared with us her personal experience when facing with choices. one of the participants, an mature Indian HR professional, was moved to tears. i chocked slightly. be it the difficulties of doing work in making changes in orgnaisation or balancing work & life or pursuing what she wanted, her words has touched many of us in different ways. though her session started 4.45pm, but everyone in the room stayed attentive & engaged.
I dun usually seat in for such sessions, but i was there coz i need to open the presentation file for her, so i sat thru. I'm glad i there...maybe it's meant to be.
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Crabs
Izzy send us an email at 2pm asking us to vote "IF SOMEBODY IS STRESSING YOU. IS IT FOR GOOD OR FOR BAD??"
Me n Soo replied that it reali depends how to see it. It can reali turn out to be pushing you to do better.
Diane send us her vote:
agree...
Short Management Story to share:
long long time ago, before freezer was invented, fishermen must always think of ways to keep fishes as fresh as possible (so that it will be fresh for sale)..
The journey from sea to land takes a few days or hours (motor still not invented).. And the fishes always die shortly after captured (101 reasons: seasick, boat too shaky, overcrowed, depressed cos lost freedom, etc)...
So one fisherman think of a clever way... He put few big crabs in the tank filled with other fishes (and water of course!!)... Crab eats fish that dun swim fast.. so the fishes must stay alert if they dun want to be pinch by the crabs...
So the fatality rate for the fishes is low...
Morale of the story: We are all like fishes in the tank... Some amount of predators are good to keep up alert and work hard to stay afloat.. But not certain enemies who are always out to target us...
People, crabs r here to stay, so keep swimming!!
Me n Soo replied that it reali depends how to see it. It can reali turn out to be pushing you to do better.
Diane send us her vote:
agree...
Short Management Story to share:
long long time ago, before freezer was invented, fishermen must always think of ways to keep fishes as fresh as possible (so that it will be fresh for sale)..
The journey from sea to land takes a few days or hours (motor still not invented).. And the fishes always die shortly after captured (101 reasons: seasick, boat too shaky, overcrowed, depressed cos lost freedom, etc)...
So one fisherman think of a clever way... He put few big crabs in the tank filled with other fishes (and water of course!!)... Crab eats fish that dun swim fast.. so the fishes must stay alert if they dun want to be pinch by the crabs...
So the fatality rate for the fishes is low...
Morale of the story: We are all like fishes in the tank... Some amount of predators are good to keep up alert and work hard to stay afloat.. But not certain enemies who are always out to target us...
People, crabs r here to stay, so keep swimming!!
Saturday, October 20, 2007
Valentine 2oo8
i was checking back my blog to see if i can find records of past yr's V-Day. But, boh. so as u can see, it's reali just another day. nothing particuparly special.
i rcalled there's one yr in poly, i bought 2 dozen of nice plastic roses, personalised them with little self-made labels and distribut them to my class and courses mates. i jus wanted to show my appreciation to them as a friend, and some warmth on this day.
but 10 yrs from then, i'm totally treating it as another day, like my 12 feb, 13 feb, 15 feb... so, i din wanna stay at home. i called Ker up and see if she wants to meet for dinner and then shop at Challenger. Yes. u heard me rite. Challenger at Funan. we were sort of 'hooked' on the fun seeing & hearing each other over webcam. i knw, some old women trying to be techy.
ker bought a decent $29 webcam. totally satisfied and happy. we decided to spend our V-day at Sake Sushi Funan. Simpily becoz we thot it wld be the least crowded pl with pretending-to-be-loving couples.
so we had a good dinner and ended with sweet sweet Haggen Dass dessert.
on my way walking home, my mp3 randomly played this song by 戴愛玲, 對的人:
... 愛要耐心等待 仔細尋找 感覺很重要 . 寧可空白了手 等候一次 真心的擁抱
我相信在〔這個〕世界上 一定會遇到 . 對的人出現..在眼角
wat am i waiting for? just a 對的人 =)
i rcalled there's one yr in poly, i bought 2 dozen of nice plastic roses, personalised them with little self-made labels and distribut them to my class and courses mates. i jus wanted to show my appreciation to them as a friend, and some warmth on this day.
but 10 yrs from then, i'm totally treating it as another day, like my 12 feb, 13 feb, 15 feb... so, i din wanna stay at home. i called Ker up and see if she wants to meet for dinner and then shop at Challenger. Yes. u heard me rite. Challenger at Funan. we were sort of 'hooked' on the fun seeing & hearing each other over webcam. i knw, some old women trying to be techy.
ker bought a decent $29 webcam. totally satisfied and happy. we decided to spend our V-day at Sake Sushi Funan. Simpily becoz we thot it wld be the least crowded pl with pretending-to-be-loving couples.
so we had a good dinner and ended with sweet sweet Haggen Dass dessert.
on my way walking home, my mp3 randomly played this song by 戴愛玲, 對的人:
... 愛要耐心等待 仔細尋找 感覺很重要 . 寧可空白了手 等候一次 真心的擁抱
我相信在〔這個〕世界上 一定會遇到 . 對的人出現..在眼角
wat am i waiting for? just a 對的人 =)
Tuesday, October 09, 2007
Tuesday, September 04, 2007
Self
“Some people find fault like there's a reward for it.”
- Zig Ziglar
I'm this sort. except that i'm constantly doing it to myself. i knw abt self-acceptance.. and i'm working on it.
sigh, aiya, i shd be fine la. wat can be worst? the most i give up and move on lo. i've tried for coming 4yrs already... i hvnt forget my dreams, u knw.
- Zig Ziglar
I'm this sort. except that i'm constantly doing it to myself. i knw abt self-acceptance.. and i'm working on it.
sigh, aiya, i shd be fine la. wat can be worst? the most i give up and move on lo. i've tried for coming 4yrs already... i hvnt forget my dreams, u knw.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
卑微的人类
最近，有些朋友不开心。
一个为失去的感情，不顾自尊，拼命挽回。
一个结了婚却才问不同背景的人可以在一起吗？
人，一旦陷入感情，就很难清醒地思考。
周围的朋友都想尽办法，希望可以把她们从自己的监牢里拉出来。
我真的好想对她们说些什么。
但我有凭什么？朋友说 “你又没恋爱过。”
人与人之间，感情的事不就那三两件吗。
其实，我真的知道的。
我知道的作者不多。可是在不开心的时候， 总能在她的字句找到一些一针见血的东西：
张小娴-
為何
『我們放下尊嚴, 放下個性, 放下固執, 都只是因為放不下一個人。』
卑微
『愛人是很卑微﹐ 很卑微的﹐ 如果對方不愛你的話。』
痛苦
『帶給你快樂的那個人﹐ 就是也能帶給你痛苦的人。』
还有这个。献给我那些我心疼的朋友。
一个为失去的感情，不顾自尊，拼命挽回。
一个结了婚却才问不同背景的人可以在一起吗？
人，一旦陷入感情，就很难清醒地思考。
周围的朋友都想尽办法，希望可以把她们从自己的监牢里拉出来。
我真的好想对她们说些什么。
但我有凭什么？朋友说 “你又没恋爱过。”
人与人之间，感情的事不就那三两件吗。
其实，我真的知道的。
我知道的作者不多。可是在不开心的时候， 总能在她的字句找到一些一针见血的东西：
张小娴-
為何
『我們放下尊嚴, 放下個性, 放下固執, 都只是因為放不下一個人。』
卑微
『愛人是很卑微﹐ 很卑微的﹐ 如果對方不愛你的話。』
痛苦
『帶給你快樂的那個人﹐ 就是也能帶給你痛苦的人。』
还有这个。献给我那些我心疼的朋友。
Monday, August 13, 2007
No. 46
Went to temple yest. I wan to get some advise on wat to do wif e many options to my future. 我的签叫我守旧。Be patient and do not fall into temptation.
Sigh. 我看我还是再等等吧。
Sigh. 我看我还是再等等吧。
Mars vs Venus
When I took out my new sunglass to show the gp, Jx share wif us a quote he read:
Man would pay $20 for a $10 thing he need
Woman would pay $10 for a $20 thing she doesn't need.
I'm guilty. I wish I can be more like Man.
Man would pay $20 for a $10 thing he need
Woman would pay $10 for a $20 thing she doesn't need.
I'm guilty. I wish I can be more like Man.
Thursday, July 19, 2007
random thots
tomolo going to sydney loo! but some how its different fr my other trips. it's the first trip there for most of us, but maybe it's becoz we dun need to worry whr to go, plan the route, or book any accommodation. everything is taken care of by Mdm Wong. so we were juz contented and e busiest thing is to discuss how much currency to change... and yes! the cows are finally flying!
tarot class is almost ending, but we are stil struggling thru. tt guy sitting in front - he can articulate the card's meanings and express his thots so well since day one. i guess half the class are intimidated by him. me n lynn were guessing wat he does for living. finally today, winnie broke the Qn and asked him wat's his profession. he replied calmly,"script writer"..."for Infotainment/variety shows". wah lao! tt explains! perfectly. but i believe we can all do the readings well one day, we jus need to trust ourselves n keep practising.
and jus to share some fotos fr Jx's wedding, n our role as "Brothers"
the cock's..,oops, shd be e rooster's nite
waking up a 3.30am and depart at 5am for the bride!!
the compile of Jx's wedding on 1st day of July! =)
and before i go (to sleep), i wanna commit myself to make this holiday trip a fruitful one. i hope to find directions for my future. see ya when i'm back *mucks*
tarot class is almost ending, but we are stil struggling thru. tt guy sitting in front - he can articulate the card's meanings and express his thots so well since day one. i guess half the class are intimidated by him. me n lynn were guessing wat he does for living. finally today, winnie broke the Qn and asked him wat's his profession. he replied calmly,"script writer"..."for Infotainment/variety shows". wah lao! tt explains! perfectly. but i believe we can all do the readings well one day, we jus need to trust ourselves n keep practising.
and jus to share some fotos fr Jx's wedding, n our role as "Brothers"
the cock's..,oops, shd be e rooster's nite
waking up a 3.30am and depart at 5am for the bride!!
the compile of Jx's wedding on 1st day of July! =)
and before i go (to sleep), i wanna commit myself to make this holiday trip a fruitful one. i hope to find directions for my future. see ya when i'm back *mucks*
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
LEFT OR RIGHT BRAIN?
First, identify yourself as right or left brain person:
1. Hold your hands together, as if you were praying.
Look at your hands. If you see
Left thumb is below the right thumb ---> left brain
Right thumb is below the left thumb ---> right brain
2. Fold your arms in front of you (as if you are angry)
Right arm above left arm ---> left brain
Left arm above right arm ---> right brain
Based on 1+2 (order important), below is the interpretation of your
personality:
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Right-Left
Considerate, traditional, indirect type
can instinctively read other's emotion, and respond friendly by natures.
Although not very into taking initiatives in moving forward, but this person
will always take a step back in supporting others. Stable personality and
considerate, give others a being protected feeling. But the weakness is
they cannot say no; regardless how unwilling they are, they will take care
of others.
Right-Right
Loves challenges type
Straightforward. Once they decided on one thing, will take action right
away. Very curious, and love challenges. Dare to face dangers without
thinking through (sometimes foolishly). Their weakness is they don't listen
to others, will filter in only what whey want to hear in a conversation,
and very subjective. However, because of their straightforward attitude,
they tend to be fairly popular.
Left-Left
Dedicated, cold, perfectionist
Very logical in all aspects. The only way to defeat (or win over) him/her
is through reasons. Has a lot of prides, and feeling strongly about doing
the right thing. If they are your friends, they are very trustworthy.
However, if they are your opponents, they will be very tough to deal with.
Because they can be very "anal" as a perfectionist, they usually leave a
bad impression of being hard to deal with when first met.
Left-Right
Likes to take care of others, leader type
Has a cool and keen observation ability to see through situations, yet
still can be considerate in others needs. Because of their cool and calm
nature, and strong sense of responsibility, they tend to become head of a
group. Popular among people. However, they may not be able to help
themselves in meddling because they want to take care of others too much.
Very concerned about how others view them, and always on alert.
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I'm Left-Left!
1. Hold your hands together, as if you were praying.
Look at your hands. If you see
Left thumb is below the right thumb ---> left brain
Right thumb is below the left thumb ---> right brain
2. Fold your arms in front of you (as if you are angry)
Right arm above left arm ---> left brain
Left arm above right arm ---> right brain
Based on 1+2 (order important), below is the interpretation of your
personality:
*******************************************
Right-Left
Considerate, traditional, indirect type
can instinctively read other's emotion, and respond friendly by natures.
Although not very into taking initiatives in moving forward, but this person
will always take a step back in supporting others. Stable personality and
considerate, give others a being protected feeling. But the weakness is
they cannot say no; regardless how unwilling they are, they will take care
of others.
Right-Right
Loves challenges type
Straightforward. Once they decided on one thing, will take action right
away. Very curious, and love challenges. Dare to face dangers without
thinking through (sometimes foolishly). Their weakness is they don't listen
to others, will filter in only what whey want to hear in a conversation,
and very subjective. However, because of their straightforward attitude,
they tend to be fairly popular.
Left-Left
Dedicated, cold, perfectionist
Very logical in all aspects. The only way to defeat (or win over) him/her
is through reasons. Has a lot of prides, and feeling strongly about doing
the right thing. If they are your friends, they are very trustworthy.
However, if they are your opponents, they will be very tough to deal with.
Because they can be very "anal" as a perfectionist, they usually leave a
bad impression of being hard to deal with when first met.
Left-Right
Likes to take care of others, leader type
Has a cool and keen observation ability to see through situations, yet
still can be considerate in others needs. Because of their cool and calm
nature, and strong sense of responsibility, they tend to become head of a
group. Popular among people. However, they may not be able to help
themselves in meddling because they want to take care of others too much.
Very concerned about how others view them, and always on alert.
************************
I'm Left-Left!
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
the golem in my office...
he's like a huge ear, trying to hide & pretend to work. he's also a huge nose who likes to poke himself into even e smallest matter...
Sunday, June 10, 2007
30th Birthday Celebration!
Hi there! I really meant to put down my series of activities planned out for my 30th birthday earlier. But somehow, something unplanned for crop up and I need to deal wif it - I was down with flu for more than a whole week! Not fully recover til today.
The celebration started Thursday. Well, I've put tht in my previous entry - Went to SanoBar and New Asia Bar with the mad cows. I was lethargic tht nite, but I didn’t pay attention to it.
It broke out on Friday when I was on leave. oh man! I took my Panadol as usually, thot it would go away soon. Then in the evening, I had a simple (& sinful) dinner with the Guys at BotakJones. Anything in Singapore with long queue means it's good. Well.... Not really fan-tastic for me though.
My flu got worse on Saturday, body aching, more lethargic and started to cough. I was supposed to go shopping with my sis and Namie and then proceed to the Mayday Concert together! But I really can’t pull myself out of bed and slept till about 4pm. I went to Tampines for shopping anyway and got a good deal at La Senza. It was 50% store wide, and Stand Chart card holders will get additional 15%! Gosh, a good whole 65% off. So the 3 of us was happily combing through the items, hoping to find more good deals! The $300 bill was down to $105! Haha.. so shiok. Thanks GSS!
After that, we went to the MayDay Concert. Was not reali expecting much initially. We bought the cheapest tier of tix, how involved can we get, aiya... But no lo, it totally blew us up! When the lights begin to dim, everyone started to scream and held up their light sticks in their hand. Waving and waiting in anticipation for the band to appear. Although we were a distance from the stage, we felt the warmth of the fans. Soon, the whole concert hall were all standing up, some even on their chairs. The band soon got everyone breathless with their famous rocks and raps. I tell ya, I always thot locals like to act cool and doesn’t participant much in such events (I've been to some real lousy ones) but I was so pleasantly surprised by this crowd! We reali enjoyed ourselves a lot. We all sang and swing along. And for that 3 hrs, my headache was gone, my nose stops running and i was naturally cured by my high spirit!
then on Sunday morning, I thot I shd spend more time with family, so I brought pa, ma & sis for dim-sum buffet at Dragon Gate. We had a feast. It's been a while since we eat out. Afterwich, we went for movie. Watch Pirates. It's getting a little too complicated I think.
Then Monday, I was not well already. The coughing got worse and I was getting weaker. But I need to meet M and Amy for dinner. We felt we need to tok to her, just the 3 of us. So, we had dinner at Black Angus, Fullerton. U knw wat. This is the killer! We ordered the Sampler cocktail, a big onion loaf and buffalo wings. Dessert was too-huge-for-one pax cheese cake and the yummy mud pie. The dinner was good. But aft all tht fried and heaty food, I was knock down the nex morning.
Supposed to meet my poly classmates for dinner on Tuesday, but KM & Stephen cant make it las min, I was reali not well too, so it got postponed. I struggle thru to late afternoon, then I pack my bad and headed for Doc. She gave me 2 days Mc. I was back in Office on Thursday, but I was reali sick. I was worried that I spread it to my colleagues too. The med din help much, and Antibiotics makes me even more miserable, so I stopped taking it aft 2 times. Even my left ear was blocked. I then went to Eu Yan San clinic instead.
I've nv been so feeble that I cant even finish half a bowl of porridge. Daily routine was just taking med, sleep, take some food and med again. The nite sleep was horrible too - I got these constant piercing pains in my ear, in my head and even in my jaw. I cant sleep at all.
I wonder, I'm just going thru a bad flu, wat wld those with more serious illness go thru? Health is important. I have my dear parents to take care of me when I fell sick. They were busy whole day boiling herbal tea, making juices for cooling, buying pills and oilments that will sooth my cough. What wld happen to my friends who stayed alone, or ppl without close ones ard them to take care of them? It's even more difficult for lonely old folks who faced the 4 walls by themselves. Gosh...
I'm pretty much well now, as u can see, I can blog so much already :) Although my ears are still blocked and my head a little heavy. Folks, do take care of yourselves, and extend care and concern if ur friend need your help... bye!
oh... and Soo has given birth on 6 June 07 to a healthy baby boy! =)
The celebration started Thursday. Well, I've put tht in my previous entry - Went to SanoBar and New Asia Bar with the mad cows. I was lethargic tht nite, but I didn’t pay attention to it.
It broke out on Friday when I was on leave. oh man! I took my Panadol as usually, thot it would go away soon. Then in the evening, I had a simple (& sinful) dinner with the Guys at BotakJones. Anything in Singapore with long queue means it's good. Well.... Not really fan-tastic for me though.
My flu got worse on Saturday, body aching, more lethargic and started to cough. I was supposed to go shopping with my sis and Namie and then proceed to the Mayday Concert together! But I really can’t pull myself out of bed and slept till about 4pm. I went to Tampines for shopping anyway and got a good deal at La Senza. It was 50% store wide, and Stand Chart card holders will get additional 15%! Gosh, a good whole 65% off. So the 3 of us was happily combing through the items, hoping to find more good deals! The $300 bill was down to $105! Haha.. so shiok. Thanks GSS!
After that, we went to the MayDay Concert. Was not reali expecting much initially. We bought the cheapest tier of tix, how involved can we get, aiya... But no lo, it totally blew us up! When the lights begin to dim, everyone started to scream and held up their light sticks in their hand. Waving and waiting in anticipation for the band to appear. Although we were a distance from the stage, we felt the warmth of the fans. Soon, the whole concert hall were all standing up, some even on their chairs. The band soon got everyone breathless with their famous rocks and raps. I tell ya, I always thot locals like to act cool and doesn’t participant much in such events (I've been to some real lousy ones) but I was so pleasantly surprised by this crowd! We reali enjoyed ourselves a lot. We all sang and swing along. And for that 3 hrs, my headache was gone, my nose stops running and i was naturally cured by my high spirit!
then on Sunday morning, I thot I shd spend more time with family, so I brought pa, ma & sis for dim-sum buffet at Dragon Gate. We had a feast. It's been a while since we eat out. Afterwich, we went for movie. Watch Pirates. It's getting a little too complicated I think.
Then Monday, I was not well already. The coughing got worse and I was getting weaker. But I need to meet M and Amy for dinner. We felt we need to tok to her, just the 3 of us. So, we had dinner at Black Angus, Fullerton. U knw wat. This is the killer! We ordered the Sampler cocktail, a big onion loaf and buffalo wings. Dessert was too-huge-for-one pax cheese cake and the yummy mud pie. The dinner was good. But aft all tht fried and heaty food, I was knock down the nex morning.
Supposed to meet my poly classmates for dinner on Tuesday, but KM & Stephen cant make it las min, I was reali not well too, so it got postponed. I struggle thru to late afternoon, then I pack my bad and headed for Doc. She gave me 2 days Mc. I was back in Office on Thursday, but I was reali sick. I was worried that I spread it to my colleagues too. The med din help much, and Antibiotics makes me even more miserable, so I stopped taking it aft 2 times. Even my left ear was blocked. I then went to Eu Yan San clinic instead.
I've nv been so feeble that I cant even finish half a bowl of porridge. Daily routine was just taking med, sleep, take some food and med again. The nite sleep was horrible too - I got these constant piercing pains in my ear, in my head and even in my jaw. I cant sleep at all.
I wonder, I'm just going thru a bad flu, wat wld those with more serious illness go thru? Health is important. I have my dear parents to take care of me when I fell sick. They were busy whole day boiling herbal tea, making juices for cooling, buying pills and oilments that will sooth my cough. What wld happen to my friends who stayed alone, or ppl without close ones ard them to take care of them? It's even more difficult for lonely old folks who faced the 4 walls by themselves. Gosh...
I'm pretty much well now, as u can see, I can blog so much already :) Although my ears are still blocked and my head a little heavy. Folks, do take care of yourselves, and extend care and concern if ur friend need your help... bye!
oh... and Soo has given birth on 6 June 07 to a healthy baby boy! =)
Thursday, May 31, 2007
3 more days to 30th
My 30th Birthday is coming. And the Cowz had come together for a dinner at the SanoBar at One Fullerton. The food was good. I reali like their Lebanese style salad, lamb chop. The entree was great too.
Together with this surprise dinner, came the news the M has broken off. We were still listening to her las week on how she's going to handling this difficult relationship she has with her divorcee boyfriend (plus his kid) and how he shd hv prioritise his time spend between his family and with M. She was obviously going thru great pressure. And recently, she begin to hide her hse crying over this relationship. She even start to breakdown in office. This is not healthy. But there's nothing we can do but give her full support as a friend.
A week later, the jerk initiated broke off. He's a smart guy. He know wat works & wat doesnt for him. Maybe he's rite, if this relationship is not something which he wld wan to put in efforts, he might as well end it sooner. "I dun want to see u suffer", that's wat he told her. Crap. He din even put in efforts to show tt he's committed to her! I dun think he loves M. M, who has committed 3 full yrs of youth & time & risking her relationship with her parents is on her own now. Still crying.
Although we know it's hard for her, we do think its a good start for M. At least, she is free to choose again. we will work hard to bring the good old gal back. Gal, u need to find ur self-value back. Dont be sorry if it doesnt work out. It's just the way things are...
Together with this surprise dinner, came the news the M has broken off. We were still listening to her las week on how she's going to handling this difficult relationship she has with her divorcee boyfriend (plus his kid) and how he shd hv prioritise his time spend between his family and with M. She was obviously going thru great pressure. And recently, she begin to hide her hse crying over this relationship. She even start to breakdown in office. This is not healthy. But there's nothing we can do but give her full support as a friend.
A week later, the jerk initiated broke off. He's a smart guy. He know wat works & wat doesnt for him. Maybe he's rite, if this relationship is not something which he wld wan to put in efforts, he might as well end it sooner. "I dun want to see u suffer", that's wat he told her. Crap. He din even put in efforts to show tt he's committed to her! I dun think he loves M. M, who has committed 3 full yrs of youth & time & risking her relationship with her parents is on her own now. Still crying.
Although we know it's hard for her, we do think its a good start for M. At least, she is free to choose again. we will work hard to bring the good old gal back. Gal, u need to find ur self-value back. Dont be sorry if it doesnt work out. It's just the way things are...
Thursday, May 17, 2007
Time Flies...
i was checking my emails e other day, and saw Mae replying one of Jess' email. She wrote something like,"... i reckon that i need to go for the op because me and JD is planning to start a family soon". wow. suddenly, i hv falsh back of Mae in her HIHS uniform, chatting wif other gals in the class during lessons interval. Mae then was stil like, "ah-lian" & playful lo. Jess too. hehe. And we all hv our O-levels to struggle with. And now, we have all gone this far. Angie has her plans & Jess is happily in love with Botak.
Peisong has receive the his precious princess Nikki yesterday. She is e first baby in our Boyz gp. She so little at 2.7 kg! ok, it's 2.756 kg. A bit early, supposed to come mid June, but she's healthy n pretty. looking at the couple, i saw tt unique parental sparkle in Peisong's n Susan's eyes... a child's birth is truely amazing. it changed a couple's life. they r now elevated to another phase in life. Congrats!
as we are moving along with time, i m also starting to worry abt my mum n my papa. i'm always guilty tt i hv not done enough. i'm not even spending enuf time wif them! i reali wanna bring them travel, i wan them to be healthy, i wanna buy a hse wif backyard for them to grow fruit trees & vege, n our family to sit ard to BBQ. n a baby perhaps. their own grandchild. i juz wan them to be here n happy. always.
looking at things happening ard me, it always struck me how powerless we are. wat r we all fighting for? many of my own fears are silly, too. we reali shouldnt be too worry abt what that hasnt happen. we shd all cherish n do wat we shd for now, for the present.
Peisong has receive the his precious princess Nikki yesterday. She is e first baby in our Boyz gp. She so little at 2.7 kg! ok, it's 2.756 kg. A bit early, supposed to come mid June, but she's healthy n pretty. looking at the couple, i saw tt unique parental sparkle in Peisong's n Susan's eyes... a child's birth is truely amazing. it changed a couple's life. they r now elevated to another phase in life. Congrats!
as we are moving along with time, i m also starting to worry abt my mum n my papa. i'm always guilty tt i hv not done enough. i'm not even spending enuf time wif them! i reali wanna bring them travel, i wan them to be healthy, i wanna buy a hse wif backyard for them to grow fruit trees & vege, n our family to sit ard to BBQ. n a baby perhaps. their own grandchild. i juz wan them to be here n happy. always.
looking at things happening ard me, it always struck me how powerless we are. wat r we all fighting for? many of my own fears are silly, too. we reali shouldnt be too worry abt what that hasnt happen. we shd all cherish n do wat we shd for now, for the present.
Wednesday, May 09, 2007
如果我们都是蚂蚁就好了
越来越不敢说出自己的感受。
一向都prefer收藏true feeelings 的我，
不知从什么时候开始，连日记也不写了。
她们说也许是我空闲了，爱胡思乱想，爱钻牛角尖。
只是，人生的checklist上，我没能打上几个勾。
你的呢？
常问自己：Is there anything I can celebrate abt myself?
我知道我是幸福的。
有爱我的家人，有许多的好友，
有稳定的工作，还时不时地能到处玩。
可是，我的人生到了这里，过了三十年，
我，该怎么往下走剩下的三十年、四十年呢？
唉。旁观者，你是不是也会说我自找的？
我想也是。
Checklist 是自己定的。
框框也是自己假想的。
如果不喜欢，那就擦掉再画新的吧!
如果我们都是蚂蚁就好了，不用像那么多。
只是，蚂蚁会不会也有烦恼啊？
一向都prefer收藏true feeelings 的我，
不知从什么时候开始，连日记也不写了。
她们说也许是我空闲了，爱胡思乱想，爱钻牛角尖。
只是，人生的checklist上，我没能打上几个勾。
你的呢？
常问自己：Is there anything I can celebrate abt myself?
我知道我是幸福的。
有爱我的家人，有许多的好友，
有稳定的工作，还时不时地能到处玩。
可是，我的人生到了这里，过了三十年，
我，该怎么往下走剩下的三十年、四十年呢？
唉。旁观者，你是不是也会说我自找的？
我想也是。
Checklist 是自己定的。
框框也是自己假想的。
如果不喜欢，那就擦掉再画新的吧!
如果我们都是蚂蚁就好了，不用像那么多。
只是，蚂蚁会不会也有烦恼啊？
Thursday, April 26, 2007
測驗你是那一朝代的人！
1、你對現在的自己基本滿意嗎？
A、是（去2 ）
B、否（去 7）
2 、喜歡戰爭題材的作品嗎？
A、很喜歡（去 7）
B、否或一般（去3 ）
3、有過強烈的無奈感、發覺生活中有些事是不得不接受的嗎？
A、是（去 5）
B 、否（去4）
4、相信善有善報、等價交換的說法？
A 、是（答案A）
B、否（去 5）
5 、你的自我保護意識很強嗎？
A、是（去 8）
B、否（去6 ）
6、比起遊樂場來更喜歡名勝古跡？
A、是（答案 E）
B 、否（去8）
7、更喜歡對抗類的比賽（如籃球、擊劍）還是輕鬆的運動（如游泳、散步）？
A 、對抗類的比賽（去12 ）
B、輕鬆的運動（去 3）
8、你是個喜歡質疑現實的人嗎？
A 、是（去10）
B、否（去9 ）
9、最近經常有迷茫的感覺嗎？
A、是（去 10）
B 、否（答案G）
10、你相信只要努力改變自己，自己以後會成為一個更出色的人嗎？
A 、是（答案F ）
B、否（去 11）
11 、偶爾會覺得一切都是虛幻？
A、是（答案 D）
B、否（答案G ）
12、有人說過你太理想主義了嗎？
A、是（去 13）
B 、否（去14）
13、"骯髒"這個詞比"罪惡"更讓你討厭？
A 、是（答案B）
B、否（去 14）
14 、混亂對你來說意味著什麼？
A、可怕（去 3）
B、機會（答案C ）
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A 、傳說中的堯舜時代這是個美好和天真的時代，傳說那時的人們都純潔高尚、沒有險惡的勾心鬥角，大家幸福地生活在一起。相應地，你是個充滿夢想的孩子，不管實際年齡如何，至少現在你的心理年齡很年輕，可能在18歲以下。你相信世界的美好，喜歡"從此王子和公主幸福地生活在一起了"的結局，然而世界真的是你想像的那樣子嗎？
B、戰國時代戰國時代是一個比較複雜的時期，這一時期既充滿戰亂，又充滿各種思想的火花，儘管有許多殘酷的事，但高尚與優雅在這一時期依然受到很強的推崇。你是個不安於現狀的人，過久的和平讓你感到厭倦，也許\\偶爾你因此會被冠上"好戰"的名號，但其實你只是討厭沉悶罷了。你有脫離現實和在意形式的一面，美麗的事物對你很有吸引力。
C、三國時代比起同處戰亂年代的戰國時期來，這是一個更不擇手段的年代。你喜歡競爭，好勝心強，充沛的精力讓你對各種有挑戰性的事都很感興趣。但與戰國時代不同的是，和"美"這種抽像的東西相比你更注重現實，即使你是一個很道德的人，也不喜歡把道德掛在嘴邊，在你看來，能驗證一切的只有行? 吽C
D、魏晉時代魏晉時代的特點之一是種種頹廢的風氣，由於經歷的苦難太多，人們變得開始不相信現實，感到在這無常的世界中，一切都是不可*的。生活在這一時代的你，同樣是個喜歡懷疑的人，有時甚至懷疑自己的存在。你對世界持悲觀的看法，現實對你來說常常是令人悲哀和無能為力的。但這並不意味著你是個消沉的人，所謂絕望的頂點是樂觀，你只是比別人更清楚地看到了世界灰暗的一面而已。
E、唐朝唐朝是安定和繁榮的時代，無論文化還是財富都達到了太平盛世的頂峰。生活在這個時代的你，內心也是安穩的，你喜歡平靜的生活，個性溫和成熟，具有較強的包容心。你應該經歷過一些小的苦惱，但卻沒有遭受過太大的打擊，可以說你是個幸福的人，也會給你身邊的人帶來幸福。
F、五四時代套用《雙城記》裡的那句話，這是個光明的年代，也是個黑暗的年代，我們的前方有著一切，我們又一無所有。你或許正處在思想上的轉變期，一些事讓你對過去的自己發生了懷疑，決定重新調整一下自己的生活方式。走過這段路之後，一切會變得更好的。
G、現代你簡直就是為我們的這個時代而生的！你並非不知道這世上有許多不盡人意之處，但你能把它們作為生活的一部分來接受下來，這讓你過得很好。你不喜歡紛爭，也會盡量避免不必要的紛爭。儘管有些事依然會困擾你，但基本上說來你對現代社會裡的種種問題多數能應付的比較好，也懂得如何在這紛繁的世界裡找到自己的位置，這說明你是個成熟且適應力強的人。
H、未來如果你在做這M測試時做來做去總是回到同一道題目上，那麼你是個奇特的未來人……
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Sally 我是唐朝的人!! =)
A、是（去2 ）
B、否（去 7）
2 、喜歡戰爭題材的作品嗎？
A、很喜歡（去 7）
B、否或一般（去3 ）
3、有過強烈的無奈感、發覺生活中有些事是不得不接受的嗎？
A、是（去 5）
B 、否（去4）
4、相信善有善報、等價交換的說法？
A 、是（答案A）
B、否（去 5）
5 、你的自我保護意識很強嗎？
A、是（去 8）
B、否（去6 ）
6、比起遊樂場來更喜歡名勝古跡？
A、是（答案 E）
B 、否（去8）
7、更喜歡對抗類的比賽（如籃球、擊劍）還是輕鬆的運動（如游泳、散步）？
A 、對抗類的比賽（去12 ）
B、輕鬆的運動（去 3）
8、你是個喜歡質疑現實的人嗎？
A 、是（去10）
B、否（去9 ）
9、最近經常有迷茫的感覺嗎？
A、是（去 10）
B 、否（答案G）
10、你相信只要努力改變自己，自己以後會成為一個更出色的人嗎？
A 、是（答案F ）
B、否（去 11）
11 、偶爾會覺得一切都是虛幻？
A、是（答案 D）
B、否（答案G ）
12、有人說過你太理想主義了嗎？
A、是（去 13）
B 、否（去14）
13、"骯髒"這個詞比"罪惡"更讓你討厭？
A 、是（答案B）
B、否（去 14）
14 、混亂對你來說意味著什麼？
A、可怕（去 3）
B、機會（答案C ）
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A 、傳說中的堯舜時代這是個美好和天真的時代，傳說那時的人們都純潔高尚、沒有險惡的勾心鬥角，大家幸福地生活在一起。相應地，你是個充滿夢想的孩子，不管實際年齡如何，至少現在你的心理年齡很年輕，可能在18歲以下。你相信世界的美好，喜歡"從此王子和公主幸福地生活在一起了"的結局，然而世界真的是你想像的那樣子嗎？
B、戰國時代戰國時代是一個比較複雜的時期，這一時期既充滿戰亂，又充滿各種思想的火花，儘管有許多殘酷的事，但高尚與優雅在這一時期依然受到很強的推崇。你是個不安於現狀的人，過久的和平讓你感到厭倦，也許\\偶爾你因此會被冠上"好戰"的名號，但其實你只是討厭沉悶罷了。你有脫離現實和在意形式的一面，美麗的事物對你很有吸引力。
C、三國時代比起同處戰亂年代的戰國時期來，這是一個更不擇手段的年代。你喜歡競爭，好勝心強，充沛的精力讓你對各種有挑戰性的事都很感興趣。但與戰國時代不同的是，和"美"這種抽像的東西相比你更注重現實，即使你是一個很道德的人，也不喜歡把道德掛在嘴邊，在你看來，能驗證一切的只有行? 吽C
D、魏晉時代魏晉時代的特點之一是種種頹廢的風氣，由於經歷的苦難太多，人們變得開始不相信現實，感到在這無常的世界中，一切都是不可*的。生活在這一時代的你，同樣是個喜歡懷疑的人，有時甚至懷疑自己的存在。你對世界持悲觀的看法，現實對你來說常常是令人悲哀和無能為力的。但這並不意味著你是個消沉的人，所謂絕望的頂點是樂觀，你只是比別人更清楚地看到了世界灰暗的一面而已。
E、唐朝唐朝是安定和繁榮的時代，無論文化還是財富都達到了太平盛世的頂峰。生活在這個時代的你，內心也是安穩的，你喜歡平靜的生活，個性溫和成熟，具有較強的包容心。你應該經歷過一些小的苦惱，但卻沒有遭受過太大的打擊，可以說你是個幸福的人，也會給你身邊的人帶來幸福。
F、五四時代套用《雙城記》裡的那句話，這是個光明的年代，也是個黑暗的年代，我們的前方有著一切，我們又一無所有。你或許正處在思想上的轉變期，一些事讓你對過去的自己發生了懷疑，決定重新調整一下自己的生活方式。走過這段路之後，一切會變得更好的。
G、現代你簡直就是為我們的這個時代而生的！你並非不知道這世上有許多不盡人意之處，但你能把它們作為生活的一部分來接受下來，這讓你過得很好。你不喜歡紛爭，也會盡量避免不必要的紛爭。儘管有些事依然會困擾你，但基本上說來你對現代社會裡的種種問題多數能應付的比較好，也懂得如何在這紛繁的世界裡找到自己的位置，這說明你是個成熟且適應力強的人。
H、未來如果你在做這M測試時做來做去總是回到同一道題目上，那麼你是個奇特的未來人……
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Sally 我是唐朝的人!! =)
Thursday, April 05, 2007
going to australia!
yeaz!
hv been toking abt it since las dec w the nXf gang. and its finally coming true! ami's going to attend her dear bro's graduation, so she robe us in to join her for a good winter holiday. dates set 20-29 july. And, there's 8 of us! Cool. cld be stay at ami's pl. and we have even planned our itinerary. a bunch of crazy gals, finally got to travel to places other than "small states in m'sia".
gotta apply leave. and start counting tt money hidden in my froggy Herbie...
hv been toking abt it since las dec w the nXf gang. and its finally coming true! ami's going to attend her dear bro's graduation, so she robe us in to join her for a good winter holiday. dates set 20-29 july. And, there's 8 of us! Cool. cld be stay at ami's pl. and we have even planned our itinerary. a bunch of crazy gals, finally got to travel to places other than "small states in m'sia".
gotta apply leave. and start counting tt money hidden in my froggy Herbie...
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Sunday, February 25, 2007
"懂得遗忘的人找到自由".
很多时候，我们以为我们已经原谅了别人，也原谅了自己。可是一旦触碰到那道在心上的疤时，又有几个可以真的忘记发生过的事？
我就是那种"forgive but not forget" 的人。所以，心里有一座垃圾山，堆满的就是一些自己或别人的烂账。所谓的"forgive" 也变得很superficial. 这样下去，难过的只有自己。
所以，唯一解脱的方法就是真的原谅与放弃。只有这样，下一次就算有人又在掀开你任何一条烂账、苍疤时，你也能够一笑置之，不再害怕、难过。懂得如何不再执著，才可以忘记与放弃。正如 Ginger 说的, "懂得遗忘的人找到自由", 就是这个意思吧？
我一定要学会遗忘与原谅，only then I can move on and enjoy my life. 你也有烂账堆在心理吗？快点解决它吧。
我就是那种"forgive but not forget" 的人。所以，心里有一座垃圾山，堆满的就是一些自己或别人的烂账。所谓的"forgive" 也变得很superficial. 这样下去，难过的只有自己。
所以，唯一解脱的方法就是真的原谅与放弃。只有这样，下一次就算有人又在掀开你任何一条烂账、苍疤时，你也能够一笑置之，不再害怕、难过。懂得如何不再执著，才可以忘记与放弃。正如 Ginger 说的, "懂得遗忘的人找到自由", 就是这个意思吧？
我一定要学会遗忘与原谅，only then I can move on and enjoy my life. 你也有烂账堆在心理吗？快点解决它吧。
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
Vexed
it's like going thru another period of adolescence. I am starting to ask myself all over again: who am I? what do I wanna be? what do I reali want in life? is this correct? why am I so confused? I'm reali tired of being me. at 30 yrs old.
I tend to hate myself a little more aft each major argument or incident i had with colleagues or friends. thank god it dun happened everyday, but it has accumulated over the yrs, and now i think it's begining to decay my soul. and wat's worse - i can see n feel the decay. it's painful... no. it's not the argument itself. but alot of "i shd hv avoided it/ shd hv done tt/ it's my fault" thing. i knw its not healthy, but like everyone say "u need to knw how to cover ur own arse". but i'm simply too short-sighted and always run into faults. can someone juz tell me wat's wrong with me?? u knw? i've been fallin-down, got up, tell myself it's ok, but i fell again, n again. its a vicious cycle. how do i break thru??
I tend to hate myself a little more aft each major argument or incident i had with colleagues or friends. thank god it dun happened everyday, but it has accumulated over the yrs, and now i think it's begining to decay my soul. and wat's worse - i can see n feel the decay. it's painful... no. it's not the argument itself. but alot of "i shd hv avoided it/ shd hv done tt/ it's my fault" thing. i knw its not healthy, but like everyone say "u need to knw how to cover ur own arse". but i'm simply too short-sighted and always run into faults. can someone juz tell me wat's wrong with me?? u knw? i've been fallin-down, got up, tell myself it's ok, but i fell again, n again. its a vicious cycle. how do i break thru??
- wld changing a new job environment help? i dunno.
- if i ever go, is it a form of escaping? maybe.
- maybe i've lost my passion
- maybe training industry is not whr i wanna be
- i knw, i shd take my degree n upgrade myself... but
- but i reali hate to study. those Statistics & Finance & Econs! Gimme a break... maybe a Dip in some sort of Art/Fashion
- wait, i reali wan to start some cafe with my friends too. but i need to reali plan out this big dream which need big capital
bear with me, but these are the thots tht ran thru my mind again n again everyday. Fear maybe. of failure, of risks of "what-if"s. Damn. Just how do u knw what u want?
Wednesday, January 24, 2007
whr's the almost perfect job?
everyone says there's nothing such as The Perfect Job. So, is there any Almost Perfect Job?
Met with the Gossipers fr nXf jus now. Here we are, grumbling abt our colleagues, our job scope, our pay, our benefits, our career path... But there might be ppl who doesn't even hv a job; there might be ppl who dun even have the ability to work. wat do they care more then? wld u stil grumble when u r now drawing decent pay and hv ability to support urself as compared to them?
ok, we all hv different levels of needs. but reali, wat's e difference between doing admin in company A vs markting in company B? Wat's the difference between a freelancer and a full-time employee? We will meet with challenges, no matter wat we do. So, does it mean tt it'll be easier if we moved on? wat if we cant deal with it again? ...hate to admit it, but tt's my worst fear. is this a sign of getting too comfortable?
... maybe we jus wanna be less unhappy. Maybe for some, the passion in their work holds them high above everything, against all odds. And holding on to my job is like hanging on to a ex-lover, whom u hope wld turn back around someday, to re-lit tt fire again. maybe it'll work, maybe i'll find someone else soon?
in the meanwhile, i'll stil be around, until i'm clear of wat i want.
Met with the Gossipers fr nXf jus now. Here we are, grumbling abt our colleagues, our job scope, our pay, our benefits, our career path... But there might be ppl who doesn't even hv a job; there might be ppl who dun even have the ability to work. wat do they care more then? wld u stil grumble when u r now drawing decent pay and hv ability to support urself as compared to them?
ok, we all hv different levels of needs. but reali, wat's e difference between doing admin in company A vs markting in company B? Wat's the difference between a freelancer and a full-time employee? We will meet with challenges, no matter wat we do. So, does it mean tt it'll be easier if we moved on? wat if we cant deal with it again? ...hate to admit it, but tt's my worst fear. is this a sign of getting too comfortable?
... maybe we jus wanna be less unhappy. Maybe for some, the passion in their work holds them high above everything, against all odds. And holding on to my job is like hanging on to a ex-lover, whom u hope wld turn back around someday, to re-lit tt fire again. maybe it'll work, maybe i'll find someone else soon?
in the meanwhile, i'll stil be around, until i'm clear of wat i want.
Tuesday, January 09, 2007
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