Those Who Can't Do - Criticize

Before you decide to ditch your dreams on the advise of a critic, take a look at who is giving the advice. Are they successful? Are they experienced in doing what you want to do? Are they risk takers? Most likely they are not. People who are successful and know what it takes to be successful will encourage you. They will support you in your quest and share their wisdom with you. They will never tell you not to try. Only those unwilling to do it themselves will find fault with your pursuit of success.

Are you letting the critics in your life hold you back?

Today, make a commitment to pursue your dream regardless of what the critics say. Remember, only the deaf frog made it to the top.

(source:Paquin & Associates Training)

Proceed As The Way Opens

Got this from a e-newsletter, and this is my belief as well :)

"Don't be so locked into what the end result has to look like. Get clear on what you want and see yourself having it. When you are clear on what you want the Universe will create the how. You will be inspired to take the right actions at the right time. You simply have to get into the flow and allow life to happen instead of trying to force life to happen."

Are you crystal clear on what you want?

He's Married

Yi told me he got ROM with S.P, and it took place a few months back.

I then MSN Kian, and Jx & Sw got to knw abt it too. we speculated that he has chose to tell me coz i will not interrogate or jump on him like Kian or Jx might. But i was truly unhappy. we see no reason for a friend we've known so long and considered "close" to get off without sharing the news with us. he hid the yr-long relationship (maybe even longer), and now, this registery. i agree with Jx, he may have his own reasons, but wat cld it be? his army friends knew abt it. and i asked Yi if he has consider them 'closer' friends to us.

i'm quite upset. once again, it proves that there's a true difference between how even 2 person may take the same friendship differently. it's all abt expectations. to Yi, informing us may even be too much for him to do. seriously, we started to have flash backs if we even knw him at all. he's not wat we thot he was... is he?

true friends are supposed to standby for each other. true friends are forever. i'm not asking for any report on every little happenings, we need our little closet. but wld really be nice if we can celebrate happy moments together, and walk thru the downs in life together. coz when we grow old, memories are actually wht we'r hv left to hold us thru...

5.24 am

had dinner and went to watch Ironman with the guys. Quite a good show. it's 2am when the show ended, and we decided that since we are all still quite sober, we proceed to jln kayu.

we had good supper and kian drive us home... and it's 5.24am now when i reach home, still awake and blogging.

just wanna jot this down, so to prove that we, too, got stamina to - chiong ah!

浪漫的逃亡

Escape to Japan


my sis bought this book by 阿信 when we were at MayDay's concert las sat. not your typical touisy picture book, this one touches on some of the famous japanese arcitecture, and he shared some of his fav spot like John Lennon Museum & shrines. comics and other small stuff. A new perspective to my fav culture.



he's not only talented with music, he also took most of the fotos in the book. And since he did interior design in his uni days, so he can draw pretty well too! (e-hehehe, i like artsy guys!)




ok.. if no Jay, Ashin also can la.. hehe :)

MayDay! Everyday!

Yea!!

my n sis went for MayDay Down to Earth 2008 Concert on 26 april! Actually should be Back to Earth mah.. its 回到地球表面, dio-boh?... nani??

but i double-booked myself again - so i gotta give the Kelong trip a miss. Sorry Gossipers!! =X

anywayz. It was a great concert! haha... as ever. the band rocks, the crowd is responsive and we were all standing and cheering to the music as soon as the band were out! wah lao. my vocab too limited liao. pls see my video:

(stil uploading)

vid 2:
(coming soon 2)

my pix:



阿信!! thanks for bridgeing the additional stage this yr, he's so near us!





their music somehow give me some kind of assuance and encouragement... lurve ya, MayDay!



and if u hv visited my facebook or friendster, my fotos for my HK and Bintan trip are up liao. but jus wanna add some more here. it was from kian's camey. watching these guys grow old is kindda fun, haha. i'm stil the same cute SaL of coz :)

and these are our 9 attempts to zi-pai:





and of coz. after 2 days of soaking in the sea of sun, i hv to pay my bills - i reali have a good peeling, at where it is most obvious:



haha.. i'm ok now. but it's like 3 tones darker. i stil love the sun, the sea and the bitch. .. ahem, beach.

Internal Spring Cleaning

KC said my blog is dark.. but heck. I am stil going to blog abt things tht I find meaningful and which would help me become better person :)

Internal Spring Cleaning

Coaching
The change of seasons is a wonderful time to clean up your life, both externally and internally. Polish up your commitment to creating the best life possible and having all that you want and deserve in your life. If you have slipped a little on your resolutions and goals, get back on the path. Increase your self-care. Make your life sparkle from the inside out.

Coaching Question
What is one thing you can do to Spring-Clean your life from the inside out?

Daily Action
This week pick one area where you need some internal cleaning. Do you need to forgive someone, let go of past disappointments, or increase your self-care? Whatever you need to do, do it so your life can sparkle from the inside out.