Crabs

Izzy send us an email at 2pm asking us to vote "IF SOMEBODY IS STRESSING YOU. IS IT FOR GOOD OR FOR BAD??"

Me n Soo replied that it reali depends how to see it. It can reali turn out to be pushing you to do better.

Diane send us her vote:

agree...

Short Management Story to share:
long long time ago, before freezer was invented, fishermen must always think of ways to keep fishes as fresh as possible (so that it will be fresh for sale)..

The journey from sea to land takes a few days or hours (motor still not invented).. And the fishes always die shortly after captured (101 reasons: seasick, boat too shaky, overcrowed, depressed cos lost freedom, etc)...

So one fisherman think of a clever way... He put few big crabs in the tank filled with other fishes (and water of course!!)... Crab eats fish that dun swim fast.. so the fishes must stay alert if they dun want to be pinch by the crabs...

So the fatality rate for the fishes is low...

Morale of the story: We are all like fishes in the tank... Some amount of predators are good to keep up alert and work hard to stay afloat.. But not certain enemies who are always out to target us...


People, crabs r here to stay, so keep swimming!!

Valentine 2oo8

i was checking back my blog to see if i can find records of past yr's V-Day. But, boh. so as u can see, it's reali just another day. nothing particuparly special.

i rcalled there's one yr in poly, i bought 2 dozen of nice plastic roses, personalised them with little self-made labels and distribut them to my class and courses mates. i jus wanted to show my appreciation to them as a friend, and some warmth on this day.

but 10 yrs from then, i'm totally treating it as another day, like my 12 feb, 13 feb, 15 feb... so, i din wanna stay at home. i called Ker up and see if she wants to meet for dinner and then shop at Challenger. Yes. u heard me rite. Challenger at Funan. we were sort of 'hooked' on the fun seeing & hearing each other over webcam. i knw, some old women trying to be techy.

ker bought a decent $29 webcam. totally satisfied and happy. we decided to spend our V-day at Sake Sushi Funan. Simpily becoz we thot it wld be the least crowded pl with pretending-to-be-loving couples.

so we had a good dinner and ended with sweet sweet Haggen Dass dessert.



on my way walking home, my mp3 randomly played this song by 戴愛玲, 對的人:

... 愛要耐心等待　仔細尋找　感覺很重要 . 寧可空白了手　等候一次　真心的擁抱
我相信在〔這個〕世界上　一定會遇到 . 對的人出現..在眼角

wat am i waiting for? just a 對的人 =)

你很忙？？

哦man, 你到底几时来？！



i...等你.

Self

“Some people find fault like there's a reward for it.”
- Zig Ziglar

I'm this sort. except that i'm constantly doing it to myself. i knw abt self-acceptance.. and i'm working on it.

sigh, aiya, i shd be fine la. wat can be worst? the most i give up and move on lo. i've tried for coming 4yrs already... i hvnt forget my dreams, u knw.

卑微的人类

最近，有些朋友不开心。
一个为失去的感情，不顾自尊，拼命挽回。
一个结了婚却才问不同背景的人可以在一起吗？
人，一旦陷入感情，就很难清醒地思考。
周围的朋友都想尽办法，希望可以把她们从自己的监牢里拉出来。
我真的好想对她们说些什么。
但我有凭什么？朋友说 “你又没恋爱过。”
人与人之间，感情的事不就那三两件吗。
其实，我真的知道的。

我知道的作者不多。可是在不开心的时候， 总能在她的字句找到一些一针见血的东西：

张小娴-

為何
『我們放下尊嚴, 放下個性, 放下固執, 都只是因為放不下一個人。』

卑微
『愛人是很卑微﹐ 很卑微的﹐ 如果對方不愛你的話。』

痛苦
『帶給你快樂的那個人﹐ 就是也能帶給你痛苦的人。』

还有这个。献给我那些我心疼的朋友。

No. 46

Went to temple yest. I wan to get some advise on wat to do wif e many options to my future. 我的签叫我守旧。Be patient and do not fall into temptation.

Sigh. 我看我还是再等等吧。

Mars vs Venus

When I took out my new sunglass to show the gp, Jx share wif us a quote he read:

Man would pay $20 for a $10 thing he need
Woman would pay $10 for a $20 thing she doesn't need.

I'm guilty. I wish I can be more like Man.