卑微的人类

最近，有些朋友不开心。
一个为失去的感情，不顾自尊，拼命挽回。
一个结了婚却才问不同背景的人可以在一起吗？
人，一旦陷入感情，就很难清醒地思考。
周围的朋友都想尽办法，希望可以把她们从自己的监牢里拉出来。
我真的好想对她们说些什么。
但我有凭什么？朋友说 “你又没恋爱过。”
人与人之间，感情的事不就那三两件吗。
其实，我真的知道的。

我知道的作者不多。可是在不开心的时候， 总能在她的字句找到一些一针见血的东西：

张小娴-

為何
『我們放下尊嚴, 放下個性, 放下固執, 都只是因為放不下一個人。』

卑微
『愛人是很卑微﹐ 很卑微的﹐ 如果對方不愛你的話。』

痛苦
『帶給你快樂的那個人﹐ 就是也能帶給你痛苦的人。』

还有这个。献给我那些我心疼的朋友。

No. 46

Went to temple yest. I wan to get some advise on wat to do wif e many options to my future. 我的签叫我守旧。Be patient and do not fall into temptation.

Sigh. 我看我还是再等等吧。

Mars vs Venus

When I took out my new sunglass to show the gp, Jx share wif us a quote he read:

Man would pay $20 for a $10 thing he need
Woman would pay $10 for a $20 thing she doesn't need.

I'm guilty. I wish I can be more like Man.

random thots

tomolo going to sydney loo! but some how its different fr my other trips. it's the first trip there for most of us, but maybe it's becoz we dun need to worry whr to go, plan the route, or book any accommodation. everything is taken care of by Mdm Wong. so we were juz contented and e busiest thing is to discuss how much currency to change... and yes! the cows are finally flying!

tarot class is almost ending, but we are stil struggling thru. tt guy sitting in front - he can articulate the card's meanings and express his thots so well since day one. i guess half the class are intimidated by him. me n lynn were guessing wat he does for living. finally today, winnie broke the Qn and asked him wat's his profession. he replied calmly,"script writer"..."for Infotainment/variety shows". wah lao! tt explains! perfectly. but i believe we can all do the readings well one day, we jus need to trust ourselves n keep practising.

and jus to share some fotos fr Jx's wedding, n our role as "Brothers"

the cock's..,oops, shd be e rooster's nite


waking up a 3.30am and depart at 5am for the bride!!


the compile of Jx's wedding on 1st day of July! =)














and before i go (to sleep), i wanna commit myself to make this holiday trip a fruitful one. i hope to find directions for my future. see ya when i'm back *mucks*

LEFT OR RIGHT BRAIN?

First, identify yourself as right or left brain person:


1. Hold your hands together, as if you were praying.
Look at your hands. If you see

Left thumb is below the right thumb ---> left brain
Right thumb is below the left thumb ---> right brain

2. Fold your arms in front of you (as if you are angry)

Right arm above left arm ---> left brain
Left arm above right arm ---> right brain

Based on 1+2 (order important), below is the interpretation of your
personality:


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Right-Left
Considerate, traditional, indirect type

can instinctively read other's emotion, and respond friendly by natures.
Although not very into taking initiatives in moving forward, but this person
will always take a step back in supporting others. Stable personality and
considerate, give others a being protected feeling. But the weakness is
they cannot say no; regardless how unwilling they are, they will take care
of others.

Right-Right
Loves challenges type

Straightforward. Once they decided on one thing, will take action right
away. Very curious, and love challenges. Dare to face dangers without
thinking through (sometimes foolishly). Their weakness is they don't listen
to others, will filter in only what whey want to hear in a conversation,
and very subjective. However, because of their straightforward attitude,
they tend to be fairly popular.

Left-Left
Dedicated, cold, perfectionist

Very logical in all aspects. The only way to defeat (or win over) him/her
is through reasons. Has a lot of prides, and feeling strongly about doing
the right thing. If they are your friends, they are very trustworthy.
However, if they are your opponents, they will be very tough to deal with.
Because they can be very "anal" as a perfectionist, they usually leave a
bad impression of being hard to deal with when first met.

Left-Right
Likes to take care of others, leader type

Has a cool and keen observation ability to see through situations, yet
still can be considerate in others needs. Because of their cool and calm
nature, and strong sense of responsibility, they tend to become head of a
group. Popular among people. However, they may not be able to help
themselves in meddling because they want to take care of others too much.
Very concerned about how others view them, and always on alert.

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I'm Left-Left!

the golem in my office...

he's like a huge ear, trying to hide & pretend to work. he's also a huge nose who likes to poke himself into even e smallest matter...

30th Birthday Celebration!

Hi there! I really meant to put down my series of activities planned out for my 30th birthday earlier. But somehow, something unplanned for crop up and I need to deal wif it - I was down with flu for more than a whole week! Not fully recover til today.

The celebration started Thursday. Well, I've put tht in my previous entry - Went to SanoBar and New Asia Bar with the mad cows. I was lethargic tht nite, but I didn’t pay attention to it.

It broke out on Friday when I was on leave. oh man! I took my Panadol as usually, thot it would go away soon. Then in the evening, I had a simple (& sinful) dinner with the Guys at BotakJones. Anything in Singapore with long queue means it's good. Well.... Not really fan-tastic for me though.

My flu got worse on Saturday, body aching, more lethargic and started to cough. I was supposed to go shopping with my sis and Namie and then proceed to the Mayday Concert together! But I really can’t pull myself out of bed and slept till about 4pm. I went to Tampines for shopping anyway and got a good deal at La Senza. It was 50% store wide, and Stand Chart card holders will get additional 15%! Gosh, a good whole 65% off. So the 3 of us was happily combing through the items, hoping to find more good deals! The $300 bill was down to $105! Haha.. so shiok. Thanks GSS!

After that, we went to the MayDay Concert. Was not reali expecting much initially. We bought the cheapest tier of tix, how involved can we get, aiya... But no lo, it totally blew us up! When the lights begin to dim, everyone started to scream and held up their light sticks in their hand. Waving and waiting in anticipation for the band to appear. Although we were a distance from the stage, we felt the warmth of the fans. Soon, the whole concert hall were all standing up, some even on their chairs. The band soon got everyone breathless with their famous rocks and raps. I tell ya, I always thot locals like to act cool and doesn’t participant much in such events (I've been to some real lousy ones) but I was so pleasantly surprised by this crowd! We reali enjoyed ourselves a lot. We all sang and swing along. And for that 3 hrs, my headache was gone, my nose stops running and i was naturally cured by my high spirit!

then on Sunday morning, I thot I shd spend more time with family, so I brought pa, ma & sis for dim-sum buffet at Dragon Gate. We had a feast. It's been a while since we eat out. Afterwich, we went for movie. Watch Pirates. It's getting a little too complicated I think.

Then Monday, I was not well already. The coughing got worse and I was getting weaker. But I need to meet M and Amy for dinner. We felt we need to tok to her, just the 3 of us. So, we had dinner at Black Angus, Fullerton. U knw wat. This is the killer! We ordered the Sampler cocktail, a big onion loaf and buffalo wings. Dessert was too-huge-for-one pax cheese cake and the yummy mud pie. The dinner was good. But aft all tht fried and heaty food, I was knock down the nex morning.

Supposed to meet my poly classmates for dinner on Tuesday, but KM & Stephen cant make it las min, I was reali not well too, so it got postponed. I struggle thru to late afternoon, then I pack my bad and headed for Doc. She gave me 2 days Mc. I was back in Office on Thursday, but I was reali sick. I was worried that I spread it to my colleagues too. The med din help much, and Antibiotics makes me even more miserable, so I stopped taking it aft 2 times. Even my left ear was blocked. I then went to Eu Yan San clinic instead.

I've nv been so feeble that I cant even finish half a bowl of porridge. Daily routine was just taking med, sleep, take some food and med again. The nite sleep was horrible too - I got these constant piercing pains in my ear, in my head and even in my jaw. I cant sleep at all.

I wonder, I'm just going thru a bad flu, wat wld those with more serious illness go thru? Health is important. I have my dear parents to take care of me when I fell sick. They were busy whole day boiling herbal tea, making juices for cooling, buying pills and oilments that will sooth my cough. What wld happen to my friends who stayed alone, or ppl without close ones ard them to take care of them? It's even more difficult for lonely old folks who faced the 4 walls by themselves. Gosh...

I'm pretty much well now, as u can see, I can blog so much already :) Although my ears are still blocked and my head a little heavy. Folks, do take care of yourselves, and extend care and concern if ur friend need your help... bye!

oh... and Soo has given birth on 6 June 07 to a healthy baby boy! =)